Nowadays it is becoming increasingly common for women of colour to go out and have cosmetic procedures. The most recent recipient was Tameka Raymond, Usher's 38 year old wife. Following the birth of her second son, Tameka travelled to Brazil for post-baby liposuction on her stomach. It was reported that after she went under general anaesthetic, she suffered a heart attack. Was it worth it?
On hearing this news my mind ran over previous cases of sista's and surgery. Kanye West's mother who sadly lost her life as a result of cosmetic surgery and also the late great James Brown's wife Adrienne Lois Brown also suffered the same fate.
You may remember my pictures of Lil Kim, she is a prime example of surgery gone too wrong and too far. What would make a beautiful and successful woman go and disfigure herself permanently. In our community it is very much acceptable to weave our hair and wear acrylic nails but what about bleaching and cosmetic surgery?
I have a friend who when she came to this country was as fair as Michael Jackson, I never knew she was a bleacher until she returned home the same complexion as Grace Jones!!! I lie not Diva's, Once the effects of the bleach had worn off she said she felt black and ugly, her light complexion made her feel pretty...My question is and always will be what about the hands and feet???? Is it only the Jackson's that remember those parts of the body! Its like a Polar bear having the feet of a Gorilla!!! (somebody stop me!) Anyway back to my point...Our community accepts beautification as long as we don't cross the line, the line that is trying to look white. I believe the further away from your natural self you try to be, the uglier you become. Take a look at these pics of both black and white stars who have mash up themselves! Jackie Stallone and Latoya Jackson and Donatella Versace.
These pictures are both scary, funny and sad all at the same time. For me a weave, acrylics and makeup are as far as I will take beautification. At 18 I bought a tub of Palmer's skin success fade cream to get rid of my black knees (didn't work) and I've sat in the sun after having rubbed lemon juice into my elbows(didn't work)...I can laugh now because the things that used to bother me as teenager don't even cross my mind anymore. Its a shame that some of us just don't grow up and grow to love ourselves.
Peace and Love V xxx
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WOW Ms DIVA!!! You are quite some journalist ain't you. Love the blog.
Denise
Luv the blog. I’m IN big time – loved reading it. Just keep doing what you’re doing, I’m right behind you reading it all. Luv you girl.
Tolu
You are really starting to remind me of Carrie on Sex in the City but a bit more edgy with a blast of YBF touch :-0. Hollllaaaaaa xx
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Hi ya...You are a dark horse. You never once mentioned you are into writing. I like - keep it up.
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Hey V
firstly, congratulations, OMG your blog looks amazing, you have put in a lot of time and effort in it, looks great. Big congrats i will squeeze it into my daily routine, lol
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Vean you crack me up ,but u are always on the money!!
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Loving the blog! keep doing what you're doing!
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Denise
Luv the blog. I’m IN big time – loved reading it. Just keep doing what you’re doing, I’m right behind you reading it all. Luv you girl.
Tolu
You are really starting to remind me of Carrie on Sex in the City but a bit more edgy with a blast of YBF touch :-0. Hollllaaaaaa xx
Nicole
Hi ya...You are a dark horse. You never once mentioned you are into writing. I like - keep it up.
Lisa
Hey V
firstly, congratulations, OMG your blog looks amazing, you have put in a lot of time and effort in it, looks great. Big congrats i will squeeze it into my daily routine, lol
Haroon
Vean you crack me up ,but u are always on the money!!
Yolanda
Loving the blog! keep doing what you're doing!
Sade
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