I asked myself this question when I first ever saw them photograped together. I was like whoooah! This union of friendship is deep and whether you like them or not whatever they talk about, wear, opinions they forge and things they give the green light to WILL in some capacity affect each and everyone of us as women. These women have what you call INFLUENCE
Michelle, Ivy league graduate, Mum of two and First Lady said in a recent interview with Oprah that she 'wants to use her role to help women transform their lives' Thats what you want to hear a women with such clout say.
Oprah, Media mogul, undisputed queen of daytime television, Academy award nominated actress and the first self made American billionairess who has been described by Vanity Fair as being more influencial than any President, University, Religious leader, perhaps only behind the Pope.
Its great to see such greatness in Women, who are normally seen as the inferior sex and more significant for me Black Women.
No, No, No, No! I have just read that John Terry's Mum and Mother in law have been cautioned for shoplifting at Tesco's and M&S in Weybridge. Hang on a minute, what are they playing at???...John Terry their superstar footballer son, earns thousands of pounds a week yet these two middle aged blonde's felt the need to spice up their lives with a little bit of teefing! Well I never....Apparantly the ladies are innocent and its an unfortunate mix up that their lawyers are in the process of sorting out....OKAY THEN....Where i'm from there aint no smoke without fire.
Woven, leather sandals...gladiator, strappy, tassles...just get them! Featured styles are from Dune, New Look and Faith.
Fringe ankle boots and shoes, these are from New Look, ASOS and Steve Madden.
Anything with ruffles and Zebra print anything! Dresses featured are from Lipsy, Jane Norman and People's market.
Just think Safari meets Native American, gets introduced to Sarah Jessica Parker while blanking Lady GaGa!
On hearing the news of the brutal murder of singer Scoobie Santino in Greenford (a 5 minute drive from my front door)I am shocked, saddened and infuriated that someone in their moment of pure evil savagery thought they had the right to take another life. Scoobie Santino real name Ian Newton had just finished performing locally when he was set upon. What's the death count this year so far? We can total the number of the dead, unfortunately we cannot total the number of tears that shall fall from the loved one's left behind. 'Train up a child in the way he should grow' the Bible says...Do we blame the parent's, society the individual? What makes the babe you carried for nine months grow into a monster that commits murder?
People talk to your Son's and Daughters, vet who they are friends with and don't leave it to the school and society to raise them and teach them values. Most valuable of all precautions pray, pray and pray some more.
RIP SCOOBIE...
Jade Goody
5th June 1981 - 22nd March 2009
R.I.P
Its not the same outfit, its not the same hairstyle, its not the same last name...no these folks are rocking the must have accessory of the decade a partner from another race!!! Ain't it funny though how a lot of black men still have a problem with black women dating a guy from the 'otherside' yet they do it left right and centre.
I have no problem with it either way as my many of my family were conceived in such unions, I just can't tolerate white women suddenly talking as though they grew up in Trench town or the black women who after dating white men start looking down on other black women as though they are beneath them as though their white fella has somehow fast tracked them to the top spot in society! My tip is TO BE YOURSELF So what- you're dating an asian man - you're still white/black do what you do best if he wanted an asian woman he would have paid a hefty dowry and got himself one! OK! 
I always thought I would end up with an Italian stallion..why? Well because as a teen walking up and down Oxford street that's who would approach me...Now I realise they were probably sex traffickers trying to abduct me but at the time I really thought I would end up married to the mob and living an all glamorous lifestyle!
Tina (Turner), Iman, Grace Jones and Diana Ross have led the way in dating white guys and to me they have not sold out I dare anyone to challenge Tina on that one!
On the other hand Kim Kardashian and Reggie Bush annoy me profusely, as do Kobi and Vanessa Bryant these women lets just say 'GIVE IT' you know what I mean they act the part of the BMW (blackmanswoman) down to a tee. Be yourself girlies! (And Kim we know you have a big butt you can now relax, its been noted).
Am I as okay with this subject as I think I am....? Yes I beleive so, lets just all remember to stay true to our origins if I want a Toyota car that's what I should get right? A Volkswagen is a Volkswagen no matter how big its butt is! (you get what I mean Diva's! - I hope)
V xxx
Hey Diva's I was trawling through my old emails just now and came across my file entitled friendship...which is a series of emails between myself and Nicole in 2005. Just thought I'd let you guys have a peek...you never know I might let you guys read the whole series.....probably not! I might get sued as there are some names up in there that are better left forgotten!
Hi V, I'm feeling you girl even though i am not there. I'm so sorry you are feeling like this. I know it's probably too much to explain right now cause you're hurting but please note that i will always be here for you girl. There's not a day that goes by that i tell friends about you and the rest of my family in hanwell or how you are coming to B'dos in AUGUST or some joke that we have shared together. I went to the beach with yolanda on Sunday, the beach is on the same property as Sandy lane hotel that is the hotel that Jay-z and Beyonce stayed and where Tiger woods got married and there was this yacht parked up where we bathed. I was like girl if only V was here now, we probably would make our way on that yacht and find a friend. I have so many places and things for us to do when you get here. I can't wait. So no matter what you are going through, in your life, health wise, relationship wise, you have a sister, a family and a beautiful island that's your home here in Barbados with open arms . When you can, explain all to me and if you never find time that's ok cause i just might have a clue as i said i am feeling you. I wish i was there but the fact is i am not. So for now, we'll communicate like this but one day you'll have your own crib here, your happy home, your car, our store NV, you know how we do it, so keep imaginig. I'm trying to make our dreams come true.
Cheer up cause the future is bright.
Love you, your sisNICOLE
