Its not the same outfit, its not the same hairstyle, its not the same last name...no these folks are rocking the must have accessory of the decade a partner from another race!!! Ain't it funny though how a lot of black men still have a problem with black women dating a guy from the 'otherside' yet they do it left right and centre.
I have no problem with it either way as my many of my family were conceived in such unions, I just can't tolerate white women suddenly talking as though they grew up in Trench town or the black women who after dating white men start looking down on other black women as though they are beneath them as though their white fella has somehow fast tracked them to the top spot in society! My tip is TO BE YOURSELF So what- you're dating an asian man - you're still white/black do what you do best if he wanted an asian woman he would have paid a hefty dowry and got himself one! OK! 
I always thought I would end up with an Italian stallion..why? Well because as a teen walking up and down Oxford street that's who would approach me...Now I realise they were probably sex traffickers trying to abduct me but at the time I really thought I would end up married to the mob and living an all glamorous lifestyle!
Tina (Turner), Iman, Grace Jones and Diana Ross have led the way in dating white guys and to me they have not sold out I dare anyone to challenge Tina on that one!
On the other hand Kim Kardashian and Reggie Bush annoy me profusely, as do Kobi and Vanessa Bryant these women lets just say 'GIVE IT' you know what I mean they act the part of the BMW (blackmanswoman) down to a tee. Be yourself girlies! (And Kim we know you have a big butt you can now relax, its been noted).
Am I as okay with this subject as I think I am....? Yes I beleive so, lets just all remember to stay true to our origins if I want a Toyota car that's what I should get right? A Volkswagen is a Volkswagen no matter how big its butt is! (you get what I mean Diva's! - I hope)
V xxx
Hey Diva's I was trawling through my old emails just now and came across my file entitled friendship...which is a series of emails between myself and Nicole in 2005. Just thought I'd let you guys have a peek...you never know I might let you guys read the whole series.....probably not! I might get sued as there are some names up in there that are better left forgotten!
Hi V, I'm feeling you girl even though i am not there. I'm so sorry you are feeling like this. I know it's probably too much to explain right now cause you're hurting but please note that i will always be here for you girl. There's not a day that goes by that i tell friends about you and the rest of my family in hanwell or how you are coming to B'dos in AUGUST or some joke that we have shared together. I went to the beach with yolanda on Sunday, the beach is on the same property as Sandy lane hotel that is the hotel that Jay-z and Beyonce stayed and where Tiger woods got married and there was this yacht parked up where we bathed. I was like girl if only V was here now, we probably would make our way on that yacht and find a friend. I have so many places and things for us to do when you get here. I can't wait. So no matter what you are going through, in your life, health wise, relationship wise, you have a sister, a family and a beautiful island that's your home here in Barbados with open arms . When you can, explain all to me and if you never find time that's ok cause i just might have a clue as i said i am feeling you. I wish i was there but the fact is i am not. So for now, we'll communicate like this but one day you'll have your own crib here, your happy home, your car, our store NV, you know how we do it, so keep imaginig. I'm trying to make our dreams come true.
Cheer up cause the future is bright.
Love you, your sisNICOLE
You know we've all asked this question before when we've spotted the cute guy across the room, with the oh so trendy jeans and bang on trend plaid shirt, his hair is sort of cut like Ashley Cole's and his physique is magnifico to say the least...wait...hold on...you're kidding me...oh no he didn't just roll his head from side to side as he crossed his legs all while holding a glass of champagne with his pinky finger raised!!!
How sad for us women today who are searching for that knight in shining armour, these days in the current climate of metro sexualism we are more likely to pull a knight in pink batty riders! Oh the horror If they aint gay, then they are in prison and if they are not in prison then they are catholic priest's and if they are not catholic priests they are fine, good looking, hard working, down to earth men that belong to another woman...AAAARRRRRGGGGGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!!
There are some sista's who are so desperate to have a man that they will date him blatantly knowing he is bi sexual, swinging both ways, hand in all the pies, giving and receiving...you get the message diva's!!!lol Why do these women do it to themselves? Desperate housewives comes on and he's running to the sofa with toffee popcorn in tow, sitting beside you cross legged eyes glued to the latest antics on Wisteria Lane (God forbid!) He's telling YOU about the sale at Topshop and he wants to know when your brother is coming to dinner again cos 'he's so easy to get a long with'...!
On the same note am I the only 
diva that thinks Jennifer Hudson's fiance looks a bit suspect(are those brows plucked?)??? Just saying!
MWAH X
1. Sorry but for me these two are THE ultimate UBER COUPLE. Their long lasting business partnership (I mean marriage!) has earned them bucks via Perfume ranges, clothing lines and mega endorsement deals like 'Police' sunglasses. The moniker's they have named their children are bang on trend for the celebs that they are and as for Posh well! Fashionista, businesswoman, designer, singer (NOT), owner of Becks (I mean wife!) Who says a girl can't have it all! We wish you guy's a Happy 10th wedding Anniversary this July 4th!????
2. Will n Jaida...Huh Jaida we aint mad at you! You scooped our Fresh Prince of Bel Air, then you tricked him into getting you pregnant twice and all this while my man becomes a Hollywood favourite and is the A* hunk of the A list! How you do it girl No I'm playing... I love their height difference, his smile, her eyes, their cute kids and their jointly successful acting careers. They set a great standard in the Black community and best of all NOT A GOLD TOOTH OR OVER SIZED DIAMOND ENCRUSTED, PLATINUM CHAIN IN SIGHT...PHEW!
3. Jay-Z n Beyonce. This secretive, super, celebrity couple have us wanting to dress up in all black, fly to New York and stalk them. I wanna climb a tree, peek through a window and see what these two really get up to! On the real we all love to hate this couple, they are both at the top of their respective music genre's, their UBER rich and fabulous...but apart from their music WHAT DO WE REALLY KNOW??? How long did it take for B to actually admit that they were in fact actually married? What was that about? WE WANT MORE! WE WANT MORE! WE WANT MORE!(pleeeeeaassse!)
4. Jermaine Dupris n Janet Jackson. When these two hooked up I was slightly suprised, as Janet normally goes for those suspect looking light skinned guys that look like their batting for the otherside ( if you know what I mean!) !!!
He's Hip Hop, he's current and the type of guy I didn't think Miss Jackson would date. We all know JJ has problems with weight gain, apparently the more in love she gets, the more burritos she eats! JD should come with a health warning!!!
5. Nick n Mariah. WOOP, WOOP! Congratulations to you both for lasting longer than 6 months!!! I admit I was (kinda still am) a sceptic of this partnership. On hearing the news my mouth hung open for about 10 days. What about Christina Milian and Selita Banks? I'm sure Nick was engaged to both of them...OOOH WEEE they must be mad! 
I'm keeping an open mind, the 11 year age gap, the fact that Mariah is mentally delicate at times does not mean they will not last but I'm keeping hands, fingers, legs and toes crossed for this union.
I dont know what it is about Kanye and Amber Rose but i'm loving them! Their style is cutting edge to say the least. I love the retro shades, lycra leggins, afro mohican and the total pre meditated mismatch of colour and style they so skillfully execute time after time after time....Enjoy the pics....
Is it just me or is it in bad taste to speak of someone terminally ill in a bad light. Some of the comments I've heard regarding the now infamous Jade Goody have left me feeling less than comfortable.
First there was the neighbour who on hearing the news that she was going to a hospice for a few days had the nerve to reply 'Good at least I can finally get some peace and quiet'! I'm very sorry but there is nothing 'good' about anyone going to a hospice. Ok so the paparazzi have been camped outside your property for days and cars are always coming and going...BUT SHE IS DYING the noise will soon be over sir.
In a recent documentary some were slating her for 'dying on camera' they felt she had taken her reality TV role way too far and was almost milking the situation. Snobs say she should donate some of the money to a cancer charity...I say her children are her priority and let her die with the peace of mind that they will be looked after.
Dying and death will befall us all at some point, let us not judge those that have it staring them dangerously close in the face.
Jade has shown bravey and courage way beyond her years and we should all pray that she will not just focus on the life she is leaving behind but the life beyond she is soon to enter. As a Christian my sincere hope is that she know Jesus before time for her stands still.
