I bet if you asked any Black woman who her top 5 celebrity White men were they would all mention the same 5! What is it with us, where is the variety in our choice's have these particular 5 been born with some Black girl attracting gene?


Labels: relationships
A single guy’s perspective on being single.... Why is it that I am still single? That is a question I keep asking myself.
My last long term relationship ended about 2 years ago. After cracks began to show we couldn’t work things out so we separated. Ever since then whenever Valentine’s Day comes racing around, I can’t help but think of what I had once with her had and more importantly... why I am still single after so long?
Nowadays it seems to me that girls are only interested and attracted to guys that are BAD or give the impression that they are BAD. You know what I mean when I say bad the one’s that have the
tough exterior, the bravado and give off that overly confident demeanor. Now I know what I’m talking about because once upon a time I was one of those guy’s.You ladies like to put on the romantic speech that your looking for a good guy who treats you right and buy’s you flowers just because, and leave notes around the house, but when we do that you ladies TAKE US FOR GRANTED and if you really don’t mind me getting down to the nitty gritty please admit that you start telling your girlfriends that “He loves me up too much, its getting annoying” ...WE MEN CAN’T WIN! When Veyan asked me to contribute from a man’s perspective on being single, I was hesitant but I must say I’m getting into this now!
As a single guy especially around this period, I just want to know one thing WHERE ARE ALL THE SINGLE WOMEN? The good ones that is! Where does a guy have to go to find a good woman that’s relationship material?
I find in my own personal experience that it’s hard to find an attractive woman who is single, I’d like think I have all the smooth words, humour and looks J. I don’t want to be desperate and start calling up these single ads
and registering for online dating services, but why can’t a lady give me a sign, like wink at me or give me a smile, I mean If I received a signal like that I’d be in there, but... nothing. Do single women exist anymore? Where do I go? How do I know you are single? What do you want me to do???????If I had a girl right now I’d make sure everyday was Valentine’s day...The search continues....!
Labels: relationships, single ladie's
Don't ask me why but i've had this picture in my file eversince I came across it in on http://www.theybf.com/
QUESTIONS?
- What is this?
- If this was your child's father would you be seeking damages?
- If you are thinking he/she looks good please log out of my blog. Immediately.
- STATEMENT...
A Divo nontheless!
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Celebrities love to have their faces splashed on every paper, magazine and TV show, its the nature of the business and proves whether you are hot property or not, if your not making the paper's your not making paper...SIMPLE! Unfortunately, the story being positive or negative is neither here or there, if it's going to sell its going to print.
The recent altercation between Chris Brown and Rihanna has sent the media into a frenzy as no one can believe 'CHRIHANNA' has come to this. The couple of the moment, the one's were all watching, the two who's songs we can't help singing have got themselves into some dark territory with this one. For me if any story was going to come out about them I would have though it would have been a cheating scandal, pregnancy scare etc etc but physical violence was not picked up on my radar.
I love me some Rihanna, her style, her songs, HER HAIR and the fact that she's from the Caribbean and not Hollywood. I even liked the fact she was with CB, they are both so young and both at the top of their game, I know like me you all enjoyed being on celeb watch, looking out for the two of them at all the star studded events....IS IT OVER???? We hope not.
I put this question out to you reader's....Is there ever a time when you can justify a man beating a woman? Please comment I'd love to get different opinions on this one and see what we come up with. My answer is NO, but then if the woman was mistreating and abusing their child or she gave him HIV then maybe she would deserve a BEATDOWN! I don't know, violence has never solved anything yet and normally only adds to the problem...SADTIMES...Get well soon RiRi.
Let's see what you think....
Labels: Rihanna
Be sure to check out the new series of Coleen's Real Women ITV2 Tuesday's at 9pm. I really enjoyed the last one, so I'm looking forward to the next few weeks of fashion, beauty and photoshoots from a real woman's perspective.
Great viewing!
Labels: coleen's real women
My darling Diva Nicole will alway's end a dramatic story with the phrase L.I.F.E. because I guess it sums everything up. You lose your job...L.I.F.E, you crash your car...L.I.F.E, you turn up at a party and someone is wearing the same dress...L.I.F.E and we could go on and on.
horse for their 11th birthday or whether you would be born into a family of crackheads that don't even rememb
er your name let alone your birthday!!! How unfair. I bet we all have friends who spend their whole lives saying if only I had money, if only I had a car, if only I had a man, if only I had a daddy at home....I say if only you would stop allowing yourself to be your biggest obstacle, if only you could get yourself out of the way and survey the big wide world that is around you!- You are alive...no dead Diva can fulfill any dream.
- You have your health, physical and mental.
- You have the world at your finger tips via the web.
- Leave fear behind.
- Don't care about people seeing you fail..(at least your trying)
- Be your own marker...COMPARE YOURSELF TO NOONE.
- Be realistic and prepared to work hard.

I write this not only to inspire you, but also myself. How many things have you started and then shelved out of fear, frustration and lack of belief.
Let's make a pact:
- To Go for it.
- Support our fellow Diva's.
- Fulfil our God given potential.
CAN WE DO IT?...............YES WE CAN!........................
